Do you need help when praying for your spouse?

Have you begun praying for your husband or wife and gotten sidetracked into telling God all the ways they irritate you?  Before you know it, rather than standing in the gap for your spouse, you’re sitting in judgment against them. Each time I “pray” this way, my heart for Bert becomes less soft and warm and more hard and cold. I feel less and less united with him.  Yet, the message of Mark 10:8-9 (ESV) is clear: ‘“And the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer t