Frances Whitty Mercer, age 93, passed away on Monday, March 30, 2020 at her home in Lee, Fla. She had an accident in the fall and was never able to fully recover. Frances had many roles during her lifetime including mother, teacher, grandmother, great-grandmother and caregiver. Everyone that she touched has fond memory of her sense of humor, kindness, sharing and generosity.
She was born on June 4, 1926 to John B. and Edith Whitty in Lee, Fla. She was a child of the depression whose parents knew the value of working, saving and an education. Walking to Lee School was never a question. She and all of her five siblings graduated from college. Her degree was from Florida State University in Business Education in 1948.
She met her husband, Raymond Mercer, who was returning from four years of service in WWII in the South Pacific in 1948. After a whirlwind courtship and a new car, they were married and began their life together raising two children, Romona and Frank. Grandchildren would follow, and each of them adored their Grandma and Papa and the times they all spent together.
After adding elementary education to her teaching certificate, she begun her career in education where she spent the next 39 years. She always remained in the classroom teaching and taught in Greenville, Lee and Madison Primary Schools as a third-grade teacher touching the lives of over 1,000 students. She took great pride in remembering the names and following the careers and families of each of her students!
After her retirement and death of her husband, Raymond, in 1989, she reinvented herself as a community volunteer. She volunteered for the Madison Thrift Store, Treasures of Madison County Museum and The Madison County Memorial Hospital for many years. She began seeing an old friend and educator, Griffin Bishop, at the same events and they began to date. In 1998, she was engaged to him and they became a "pair" at parties, events and date trips for lunch to local North Florida towns for the next several years until his passing in 2005.
Frances was a member of the Lee United Methodist Church where she served as treasurer for over 40 years. She was a member of the Madison Women's Club, Madison County Educational Foundation, Lee and Madison United Methodist Women's Circle, Pink Ladies of Madison Hospital and United Methodist Cooperative Ministries.
Frances was the matriarch of her family. She took the lead in planning family vacations to every national monument and state capital. She took great pride in planning special birthday parties for her family and giving housewarming parties for friends. She also took on the role of being the best grandmother ever to her four grandchildren.
She took pride in her community and wanted to know who everyone was in the local restaurants and their families. If she did not know them, she would introduce herself to them. She loved taking her dog, Gideon, on rides through the family farm in Lee on her ATV. Lastly, she was a proud Florida State University Seminole fan.
She was very close to her siblings and was devastated at the loss of her sister, Muriel Turlington, in 2010. Her brother, Bobby Whitty, and sister, Lucille Cherry, both passed in 2019.
Frances is survived by her sister, Gertrude Gamble, and brother, Benny Whitty; her late daughter, Ramona Prine; son, Frank Mercer (Midge); her grandchildren: Melissa Anderson (Dean), Gena Smoak (Ron), Grady Guess (Ashley) and Ryan Mercer (Molli); many great-grandchildren and nieces and nephews; Tommy Bishop, and her dog, Gideon.
We want to thank the nursing staff at Madison County Hospital, Big Bend Hospice and Twanna Holden, Tiffany Register, Ashley Paz and LeeAnn Wirick for their care, patience and understanding for our mother.
A private family burial was held at the Hays Family Cemetary and a memorial service will be planned for a later date.
In lieu of flowers, please share your kindness by making a memorial gift to the Lee United Methodist Church Building Fund.