Should we have warned our spouse at the altar?

Standing there before God and man, I grasped my soon-to-be-husband’s hands tightly. “I need to confess something, Bert. I haven’t quite mastered 1 Corinthians 13:5 yet. So, maybe I’d be more honest if I said my vows this way: ‘I, Sheryl, take you, Bert, to be my husband if you don’t insult me, hurt my feelings or do anything to upset me from this day forward, until death do us part.’” Even though my revised wedding vows would have more honestly revealed the woman Bert was abou